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A story about how mental illness and stigma build an invisible wall between people — a barrier that distorts understanding on both sides. It reveals the quiet pain of being trapped inside, unseen and misunderstood, and the fear and uncertainty felt by those standing outside, unsure how to reach in without causing harm. Stigma thickens this wall, turning silence into distance and assumptions into separation. But when empathy, curiosity, and compassion begin to replace judgment, the barrier starts to crack. Through honest presence and shared humanity, healing and connection emerge, reminding us that the wall was never meant to be permanent.
I didn’t start in the glass case.
I started in the world—laughing, learning, loving. But somewhere along the way, pain found me. And when I reached for help, I was met with silence.
I didn’t build the glass case.
I only saw it appear— slowly, silently, between us. I saw your laughter fade.
Every time someone said, “He’s just using again,” the glass thickened. Every time someone asked, “Why can’t he just stop?” the cracks sealed tighter.
Every time I said, “He’s just using again,” I thought I was naming the truth. Every time I asked, “Why can’t he just stop?” I thought I was asking for hope.
They didn’t see the trauma. The panic. The grief. They saw a headline. A stereotype. A cautionary tale.
I didn’t see the trauma. I didn’t see the panic. I didn’t see the grief. I only saw the warnings, the stereotypes, the fear.
I tried to scream through the glass. But my voice came out distorted. Too loud. Too broken. Too much. So I stopped trying.
I tried to speak to you. But my words came out distorted. Too cautious. Too fearful. Too late. So I stopped trying.
I curled up inside the case. Made a home in the shadows. Because at least in here, I knew what to expect.
I stood outside the case, watching shadows move inside. Because at least out here, I knew what to expect.
But then—someone pressed their hand to the glass. Didn’t flinch. Didn’t judge. Just stayed. And suddenly, a crack appeared.
But then—I saw your hand pressed to the glass. Not demanding. Not blaming. Just reaching. And suddenly, I understood: the wall wasn’t yours alone. I had helped build it too.
Not rescue. Not perfection. Not blame. Not distance. But a hand that reaches through the silence. A heart that sees beyond the label. A courage that cracks the glass with empathy, understanding, and love. Together, we break through the wall.
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